e[lust] #22

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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Erotic asphyxiation: treatments of kink in therapy and the media - Kink and BDSM practitioners often come to an enhanced understanding of their own desires through the emphasis on personal boundaries and communicative consent which arises from a responsible approach to power and pain play.

Mirror, mirror - I found myself back there again, perched on the edge of the white expanse, spreading myself shamelessly in front of the glass

Worry - I’ve been thinking about rape culture more than ever before. On the outside, much of K’s and my play looks like sexual abuse. It’s not, because consent is always central.


~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

gender and misogyny: responsibility and erotic writing - I spent a good portion of my adult life being gender fluid myself ..., and have partnered with several gender fluid folks as a top. Creating representation of us and our eroticism feels so vital to me, so important.


~ e[lust] Editress ~

Help End the Backlog - Speaking out works. Taking action works. Silence doesn’t. Politicians on every level need to hear your voice saying “this is unacceptable”. 76%. 3/4. That’s how many rapists get away with it on a national level.


See also: Pleasurists #111 and #112 for all your sex toy review needs


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Erotic Writing

A Tryst By The Car

 Compliant

 Fantasy: Brand New Day

 First-Time Sex: How I Lost My Virginity

 Happy New Year

 Hysteria

 Indiscretions Vol. 1: Caught And Wild Chlid

 Like Mother, Like Daughter (part two)

 Loving her, Mounting her, Owning her

 Merry Christmas Baby

 O/One

 Should Have

 The Starlet

 Undiscovered

 Wax Off

 Whenever I'm Alone With You

 Yeeees. Date Night


Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Breaking Up, Polyamory Style

 Computer Sex

 Douchebagopolis - When Communication Fails At A Swinger Party

 Epiphora's best and worst sex toys of 2010

 Good Head

 Hormones & Biological Clock Ticking

 Lockets, Sins and Ink

 Off My Chest

 Swing Shift Volume 39- One and Only

 Semi-Rant Part Two


Kink & Fetish

Barely Cooking Christmas Party

Camp Smack That Ass!

 Fucked in bondage

 Fucking bitch

 How He Does It

 Master's Good Medicine

 Paddled and Fucked

 Parodies and Pizza Boys

 Photographer

 School Girl Night

 shes and me...

 You Know It Was Good When...